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2729 Wishing, and hoping, and praying, and waiting :( May 30, 2011 5:08 PM Hello all, I just joined this group because I think I am being irrational and yet can't let it go.  I am interested in someone and have been emailing with them lately, and the last email was not responded to. It has been about two days. Which I understand is not a a lot of time, and people have their lives to live. The pattern up until now has been a reply within a day at most. My question is, am I getting blown off due to lack of sustained interest, or may have said something that seemed intimidating in a email? What is the respectful amount of time for someone to reply within?  I tend as you may be able to tell to swoop in too soon and place unintentional pressure on someone when a call/text/email/conversation is not answered in what I think is a timely manner. If I have a shot to even be friends I don't want to blow it with past bad habits. Thanks I do realize how unimportant this may sound, but any advise is welcomed.
invincible0 her dad is against inter-religion marriage Jul 20, 2010 10:42 AM we are into relationship for more than 3 years now and want to marry but our religion has become a villain in our love story. Her dad dont want inter-religion marriage because according to him if he married her daughter to other religion, society will not accept him and he will be left alone , and he is adamant about his decision, whenever she tries to convince him or talks about me , he starts crying and she goes weak, we don't know what to do, He is constantly looking for her match and we are helpless.. we don't want to marry against our parents will.. ADVICE PLEASE??? PS: other members of her family are strongly against love marriage, he is only one who is OK with love marriage and can suport us..
bubbles1991 help please Jun 18, 2010 12:09 PM i've been dating this girl for a little while and she's my best friend's ex....we got together shortly after they broke up...i have not told my best friend yet...how do i tell her i'm with her ex-girlfriend/love of her life with out hurting her too much?
twk601 Should I keep persuing the older man? Jan 28, 2010 5:04 PM This guy makes me happy my heart skips a beat when I hear his voice and I have to remind myself to breathe when I first see him my only stumbling block is the 11 year age difference. Is 11 years too much?
golddust32 So lost Jul 9, 2009 4:28 PM I am in an impossible situation and really have nowhere to turn. If you have any advice, experience, or suggestions please let me know! I have been dating my boyfriend (let's call him Steven) for about two and a half years, but we have lived together for just under a year. He is absolutely wonderful, he treats me like a queen and I could not picture a better person to spend my life with. However, my sexual attraction to him has gone from dwindling to practically non-existent within this past year of living together. He is a great looking guy and whereas I used to find him very sexy, I now just look at him as my best friend who I sometimes sleep with, rather than my lover that is also my best friend. Insert issue number two: I am, however, incredibly attracted to someone else, let's call him Michael. We dated briefly in college but went home for summer vacation and both came back with significant others; basically we have always had strong chemistry and been great friends, but our timing has never been right. I have been seeing Michael (who is not dating anyone now) a lot lately when we are out with mutual friends, and when Steven was away this past weekend, I saw a lot of Michael. There was absolutely no cheating but it was clear to both of us that the attraction was very much still there, and I began to fill giddy again. I have not been so excited and attracted to someone in so long and I am having serious doubts about the relationship that I am currently in with Steven. Michael and I have talked and I have asked him to please give me my time to figure out what I need for MYSELF - and it very well may not include him. But I haven't slept in five days and my stomach is in knots, he's constantly in my dreams and in my head at all times. After my fabulous (but no cheating!) weekend, I told Steven that I was having doubts and that I was unhappy. He was shocked and devastated, asking me what more he could do, what did I need from him, he would give me whatever I wanted. This only made me feel more guilty. I just cannot stand to hurt him because he truly deserves a woman who loves him 100% - and I don't know if I am that person anymore. I've spoken to a lot of my older and married friends, who tell me that around the 2 1/2 year mark comes the "disillusionment phase" where you have to make a real effort to care about your significant other...and that if I leave Steven for Michael, 2 1/2 years into a relationship with Michael I will be in the exact same position. I wake up every day with my mind set to "tell Steven it's really over" and go to bed in Steven's arms telling myself that I am crazy to leave such a good man. I know the only person who can really decide what to do is me, but any suggestions/advice/ANYTHING would truly be appreciated. Both are GREAT guys - who would have ever thought that deciding between two great guys would be so heartbreaking?

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